Rational Self-Improvement for Men
written by Lane Goodwin Filed Under: Relationships
When I first started this website, I was publishing articles about how to get six-pack abs with pictures of myself as proof. One day I noticed that my articles were being shared on social media and I went on to read what people were talking about them. Then I saw a comment on one of my pictures …
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written by Lane Goodwin Filed Under: Mindset, Relationships
Setting and enforcing healthy boundaries is essential for healthy relationships, raising successful kids, and most importantly, your personal well-being. Boundaries basically boil down to what behaviors you’ll tolerate from others. A failure to set healthy and strong boundaries is not only a …
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written by Lane Goodwin Filed Under: Culture, Mindset, Relationships
Caring what others think of you is a weakness that will ruin your life because it renders you socially dependent. Social independence is indispensable to developing complete independence along with financial and intellectual independence. Mother nature is often forgiving of your failures and …
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written by Lane Goodwin Filed Under: Mindset, Relationships
The quality of your life relies on the quality of your relationships. Unfortunately, social awkwardness is an impediment to socializing and building the kind of relationships you want. Fortunately, it can be cured. If you're socially awkward there's nothing inherently wrong with you. Social …
written by Lane Goodwin Filed Under: Mindset, Relationships
Neediness is the ultimate repellant that destroys your relationships, autonomy, self-confidence, and your well-being in general. While women can get away with neediness in certain circumstances, men never can. Neediness never goes unpunished when a man does it so it must be completely demolished …
written by Lane Goodwin Filed Under: Mindset, Relationships
Friends are awesome. People with close friends are happier, healthier, saner, and they live longer. Unfortunately, friendships are in decline. "I have no friends" is a common complaint of our times. Although humanity is more connected than ever thanks to the internet and smartphones, modern …
written by Lane Goodwin Filed Under: Mindset, Relationships
Once, I walked up to a smoking hot girl in the smoking area of a bar and said "Hi!". She playfully patted my pot belly without saying a word, smiled, and left. The message was clear. She didn't like men with pot bellies and rightfully so. That was one of the instances that motivated me to lose my …
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written by Lane Goodwin Filed Under: Mindset, Relationships
The 60 year period after World War II gave rise to a new breed of soft, effeminate men. The emasculation of the modern man is going on at full speed and, as a result, the men of today are increasingly moving away from masculinity and getting closer to femininity. This new breed of effeminate …
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written by Lane Goodwin Filed Under: Relationships
"I can't stop thinking about her" is a common complaint that often catches you off-guard. You want to forget about her and move on with your life but you can’t. If you had a long-term relationship with her and you got dumped, your problem is a little different. Read How to Get Over a Girl for an …
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