Men of today face 2 options. The first option leads to a life of servitude, regret, and misery. The second option leads to a fabulous life which wasn’t even possible for the kings of the past.
On the one hand, you have the anti-male culture which waged a war on men and masculinity. The media is constantly bashing men, lecturing you that masculinity is toxic, and trying to redefine masculinity at your expense. The government has long been passing law after law that benefits everybody else except heterosexual men. Civil society organizations are working tirelessly to blame men for every modern-day problem as if it weren’t men who made civilization possible in the first place.
According to these insane people, here’s what it means to be a man today:
- Masculinity is toxic. Men and patriarchy are the causes of all evil in society. Check your male privilege.
- You must grovel to women. You’ve had enough fun and now it’s their turn. Stop mansplaining, manspreading or whatever else you are doing that is not benefiting them. You are a sexist, misogynist pig if you don’t act exactly like how we tell you to.
- Pay your taxes and we will give your money to people who are actively trying to destroy you. A real man puts the needs of others before his.
- Man up and wife up a washed-up slut who had 75 dicks inside her before settling down with you. If you say you want to marry a chaste girl with a low notch count then we will accuse you of being a misogynist pig. Shut up and obey like a good boy.
- Oh, and don’t forget to pay your alimony and child support when she decides to divorce you, or we will put you in jail.
- Don’t build muscle or buy a sports car because real men invest in their brains and it’s obvious that you are compensating for your small dick.
- Get permission from your wife or girlfriend even for the mundane things you do, such as meeting your friends. Here’s a rule of thumb: If any of your actions doesn’t benefit her, then don’t do it.
- Women and every other person represented with a letter in LGBTYXFRHD are more valuable, better, and more important than you. Know your place.
- After all this abuse inflicted upon you, it’s normal that you will want to cry. Just go ahead and do it. You must be in touch with your feminine side, after all.
Why would you listen to these people? Will they lift you up when you fall down? No. Will they help you achieve your goals? No. Why in the world would you do what they are telling you to do? What’s in it for you? If you give in to the demands of these monsters (as many men do), you will end up being a soft, weak, nice guy doormat. They will suck the lifeblood out of you until you are an empty shell of a man who’s contemplating suicide.
On the other hand, you are living in the best time to be alive. Here’s why:
- You can get rich without your family being rich. There are more opportunities to get rich than at any other time in history. The internet created more millionaires in the last 20 years than all of human history combined.
- You can build a harem that was only exclusive to the kings of the past. You no longer need marriage to access sex.
- You can travel the world with ease, which wasn’t possible even for the kings of the past. You can make the world your oyster.
- You can build a location independent business and live anywhere in the world you like.
- Life expectancy is the highest ever in human history. If you take good care of your health and wealth, you can live a long, happy life which wasn’t an option for your ancestors.
- The modern comforts (which are all invented by men, by the way) made leisure time a reality. You no longer need to hunt for your food, find clean resources for water, or safe, comfortable shelter. You can utilize your leisure time to build a great life.
If you refuse to take the first option and focus your efforts to take advantage of the second option without allowing the comforts of modern life to make you go soft, then you can live a fabulous life. You can literally live better than the kings of the past.
Hopefully, you’ll take the second option. Just say no to the monsters who want to emasculate and exploit you. Choose to be a great man and live a fabulous life.
Let’s see how to do it:
How to Be a Great Man
1. Take advantage of your natural masculine strengths
All men are born with the desire to compete and win. Video game producers take advantage of this innate male desire by selling men games where they get a chance to prove they can compete and win.
Men love watching sports because it’s about strength, competition, and winning.
The desire to compete and win is a precious natural gift and it shouldn’t be wasted with winning trophies in the virtual world where it doesn’t matter or watching other men winning.
Channel your innate masculine desire to compete and win into real-world achievements.
Another innate masculine desire that will help you to achieve massive success in the modern world is the desire to figure out how things work. It’s not a coincidence that all the inventions in the history of humanity are made by men. In our quest to find out how things work, we have been able to invent engineering systems to produce machines, read the skies to forecast the weather, navigate the world, and build systems to defend ourselves against the wild nature. The world is changing faster than ever, which provides fertile soil for a rich variety of new things waiting to be figured out. Use your innate masculine curiosity to figure out how things work in the new world, provide value, and get rich in the process.
Boldness, decisiveness, adventurousness, responsibility, physical strength, mental toughness, sexual prowess, discipline, independence, assertiveness, drive, creativity, and risk-taking are all masculine qualities that will help you to succeed in life.
Masculinity isn’t toxic as those monsters want you to believe. Masculinity is so awesome that it enabled mankind the modern comforts we now take for granted.
Use your natural masculine strengths to build yourself up to be a great man.
2. Be selfish
The moment you hear someone lecturing you in the lines of “a real man puts others before himself”, run for the hills because you are about to get exploited with zero benefits on your behalf.
All living things are selfish by nature because selfishness is a strength. It’s a survival strategy selected by nature, honed by millions of years of evolution.
You don’t owe anything to anybody except the people who raised you. If you want to help the people who raised you, selfishness is still your only option. You should first take care of your health and economics before you can help your loved ones.
Always be unapologetically selfish and take care of yourself first. There are no exceptions.
3. Bet on yourself
Self-reliance is your only option because nobody (other than your family) cares about you. You can’t bet on your family either because if you aren’t self-reliant, you will just be a man-child who’s a burden on them in which case they will resent you.
Your masculine strengths are there for a reason. Take advantage of them to build yourself up until you are completely self-reliant.
This may sound frightening, especially if you are young, but it’s not a bad thing at all. If you bet on yourself, you are in full control of your life. You don’t depend on others to advance in life and this will shield you against bending to the whims of others.
Your goal is to live your life on your own terms. The opinions of others don’t matter because they neither can help you nor they care. There’s no reason to care about what they think of you.
4. Do the work
If you are not a kid or you don’t possess a vagina between your legs, nothing will be handed to you in a gold platter. You must do the work.
Women are born, men are made. There’s no free lunch for a man. Buckle down, work hard, persist, and achieve. Don’t seek support, validation, or approval. Never ask for permission. Always remember that nobody cares about what you want. If nobody cares about your wants and desires, why would you care about their approval or permission?
Another reason you must do the work is that you are a man and you have the natural desire to be admired.
Do the work, provide value and only after that you can expect to be admired. You must prove your worth before the world rewards you. Unconditional love doesn’t exist. If you expect to be loved than you must deserve it.
If you don’t provide value then you aren’t an asset. If you aren’t an asset then you are a liability. If you are a liability then you are a burden. Nobody wants a burden. Don’t put the cart before the horse. Be a man of value first, then the admiration and the love you want will follow.
5. Break the rules
In another life, maybe 70 years ago, you had a chance to follow the rules and live a reasonably happy life. You would go to school, get a job, find a lady to marry, buy a house and a car, have kids, retire, and have fun with your grandchildren until you died.
That life doesn’t exist anymore. If you follow the same old rules, here’s what you will get today: Go to school, have trouble finding a good job, if you can find a soul-crushing job then get paid a pittance of a paycheck, don’t be able to buy a house due to sky-high real estate prices, buy a car that’s too expensive to maintain, get married to a former slut who is likely to divorce you, pay alimony and child support, hop from job to job until you never retire, and die full of regret.
There’s nothing to gain and everything to lose by following the rules in an exceedingly anti-male culture.
Break the rules, make your own rules, and follow your own path.
6. Make money
Money is an essential component of leading a masculine life because without money there’s no freedom.
You don’t make money for buying fancy cars, luxury homes, or expensive vacations. These are not your primary purposes. Your primary purpose is to achieve financial independence. There’s no freedom without financial independence. You can still buy those things when you get rich but they should only be an afterthought.
The world will be your oyster when you are rich and free. If you do a good job of not following the rules and forge your own path without depending on others, money will enable you the freedom you have been working hard for.
7. Be physically strong
Physical strength is one of the crucial pillars of masculinity. A pencil-necked, noodle armed, frail man isn’t intimidating anybody and he can’t defend himself and his loved ones in case of a physical altercation. Rely on your own strength instead of somebody else’s compassion.
You get physically strong by strength training. Strength training will not only build you muscle, but it will also help you burn fat, improve your health and boost your self-esteem. The majority of modern men are fat and weak. When you build a lean, strong, and athletic body, you will be unstoppable.
No matter how much the anti-male culture tries to convince you otherwise, women are attracted to muscular men. Being able to attract women is also an important part of being a great man and building muscle will make it easier to achieve that.
8. Dress well
Looks matter. How you present yourself to the outer world is first and foremost the representative of your self-respect. Dressing well is an unmistakable way to tell the world that you are a man who respects himself.
It’s not difficult to dress well. Avoid ill-fitting clothes. Your shirts should be ironed and your shoes should be clean. Building a lean, muscular body will also make it a breeze to look good with any nice-fitting clothing you wear.
9. Take control of your sex life
Men are equipped with a strong sexual desire that’s indispensable for the continuation of the human race.
Never apologize for your sexual desires. Humans would be long extinct if men didn’t have strong sexual desires. All 7+ billion people on the earth owe their lives to the sexual desires of men.
If you don’t take control of your sex life, you will never have sex because nobody cares about your sex life. Even your mother and father aren’t losing sleep whether their son is getting laid or not. You have to take the matter into your own hands instead of waiting for a woman to pity you and throw you a bone. Women are coy, so it’s your job to build the social skills to connect with them and convince them to have sex with you. If you are afraid of rejection then you don’t deserve to have sex.
Building muscle, dressing well, and making money will also make you more attractive to women.
Porn will rob you of your desire to attract real-life women so it’s best to not watch it at all or at least cut it down in a way that it doesn’t prevent you from meeting the women you desire.
10. Have high standards
This is a world where winners take all. Losers are abundant and they settle with the scraps. Having average standards doesn’t cut it. Top 5% of the men take everything and the remaining 95% get nothing. Let them complain about how hard life is. Yes, life is hard but it’s hard in different ways for losers and winners.
No one said winning is easy but losing is harder. Losers spend their life with resentment, regret, envy, misery, and poverty.
Winners overcome hardships, succeed through persistence, and live a fabulous life of pride, joy, contentment, health and wealth.
Have high standards and refuse to settle no matter how many times you fail. Remember, it takes only one success to wipe out all the previous failures. Join the ranks of the top 5% of men, the winners who take it all.
11. Never stop educating yourself
Wisdom is a masculine quality and it’s not taught at the school. Most people think that their education is over after graduation. The only information they consume after school is whatever the mainstream media feeds them.
The problem with those things is that school is a place of propaganda and the mainstream media is filled with lies. The truth is often unpopular so you have to search for it harder.
Read great books written by great men. Validate what you learned by real-life application and real-life success. If you have a problem in life, there’s a good chance that millions of others had the same problem and one or two wise men solved it and wrote a book about it. Seek the answers and you will get them.
12. Embrace failure and rejection
If you are never failing, you are not aiming high enough. If you are not getting rejected, you are not leaving your comfort zone.
Failure and rejection are indispensable parts of success. If you fear them, success will elude you. Failures and rejections are valuable because they provide you with valuable feedback. Success is a process rather than an event. It’s impossible to succeed without failing and facing rejections. Your goal is not to never fail or get rejected but to persist despite failures and rejections.
It’s best to frame your failures and rejections as your best teachers. Embrace failure and rejection and extract lessons from them. They will show you the path to success.
13. Embrace boredom and loneliness
Boredom and loneliness are inevitable parts of working long hours on your projects. Modern men are terrified of boredom and loneliness so much so that they are always on the lookout for distraction and entertainment whenever they have leisure time in their hands. They run to porn, social media, TV, video games, junk food, and alcohol to alleviate the pain of boredom and loneliness which ironically creates more void in their lives.
Actually, loneliness is a luxury that your ancestors didn’t have. The ability to deal with loneliness is a valuable skill that will enable you to be productive, improve yourself, build businesses, and travel the world. It also prevents neediness. A man who can’t be alone will be needy and everybody hates needy people. Boredom is an inevitable part of productivity and the ability to deal with loneliness makes it easier to deal with boredom.
Everybody envies the glorious lives of wildly successful men but nobody sees the long, grueling years of work filled with boredom and loneliness which made their success possible. The ability to deal with boredom and loneliness isn’t optional. They are indispensable parts of being a great man.
14. Never apologize
The average man is a loser. A great man is a winner. A winner is an exception. Becoming a great man is impossible without breaking the rules and doing something out of the ordinary. As the saying goes, you can’t make an omelet without breaking eggs. Average people hate to see others succeed because it reminds them of their failures. Misery loves company. When you go against the grain and try to be successful, they will try to pull you down.
You must be completely unapologetic about reaching your goals. Remember, nobody cares about a man. No one cares about what you want out of life. No one will save you if you end up miserable, poor, weak, and sick. So, why should you care about their opinions?
Never apologize for your wants and desires. You don’t owe anybody anything. Apologizing is a sign of weakness. The moment you apologize is the moment sharks smell the blood. They will revel in the joy of bringing you down to your knees and they won’t stop until they suck you dry. Go and get what you want, never ask for permission, and never apologize.
15. Never complain (every problem in your life is your own fault)
Complaining is a powerful strategy to get what you want…if you are a kid or a woman.
Complaining doesn’t work for men, and for good reason. You are equipped with masculine strengths to get what you want out of life. Men are expected to be strong and rightfully so. You have all the ingredients to be a strong man who gets what he wants out of life. When you complain, you are broadcasting to the world that you failed to be a man and you have to stoop to childish and feminine strategies to reach your goals.
Complaining is still a bad strategy for women to get what they want but at least it works for them, even if people end up resenting them. Complaining isn’t even a strategy for a man, as it never helps him to get what he wants. It’s a net negative because not only he’ll get nothing, but also people will end up resenting and avoiding him.
Another reason to never complain is that it causes your brain to believe that you are actually doing something about your problems. If you never complain, your brain will be busy trying to find solutions. When you complain, you actively cripple your ability to find solutions to your problems.
Complaining not only accomplishes absolutely nothing for a man but also harms him irreparably.
If you are a man then every problem in your life is your own fault. Solve your problems like a man or forget about being a great man.
Be sure to read:
- 21 Ways to Stop Being an Effeminate Modern Man and Be More Masculine
- Be a Better Man in 30 Days Program, Chapter 1: What Makes a Man a Better Man
- Be a Better Man in 30 Days Program, Chapter 2: Take Control of the Direction of Your Life
- How to Overcome the Fear of Rejection